the love rant
why do love and marriage not go hand in hand anymore? why when u find somebody u can really relate to, is there still irreconcilable problems? why do we have to agree to disagree? what ever happened to falling in love and staying with that person forever? my great grandparents, i think, are the last people in my family to have had this...everybody else has had a divorce.
someone at the bar tonight brought up an interesting point about women...if you're a woman (and the rest of this statement only applies to people who think like women, so stop reading if you're gonna get pissed about it) and u know u want to get married someday...why is it so difficult? the guy was talking about the typical "woman" response to certain things, and it got me thinking. Honestly, how often do we really date "the nice guy" and stay with him. do we EVER look at our best guy friend and think "he would make a really good husband"? no, we don't. then, how often do we really stay with "the bad boy" (u know the type that always care more about his motorcycle than u, and probably has lots of tattoos and hates his parents, and hates anything that even resembles committment?) not very long...cuz we just plain get bored. we always think that we can make the "bad boy" into the nice guy, but it never happens. we, as women, honestly and truly DO want the "nice guy" but we never marry a nice guy...we always tell them, "let's just be friends." which they hear everyday and have heard a million times already and don't want to hear it again, especially not from u, because they are actually in love with u already. but then, on the other side of the coin, we can never get the bad boy to settle down with us, and be happy with just "one pussy" for the rest of their lives...so then, here's the real question....how do any of us actually get married at all? (this is what the guy actually said to me...how do people get married?)
someone at the bar tonight brought up an interesting point about women...if you're a woman (and the rest of this statement only applies to people who think like women, so stop reading if you're gonna get pissed about it) and u know u want to get married someday...why is it so difficult? the guy was talking about the typical "woman" response to certain things, and it got me thinking. Honestly, how often do we really date "the nice guy" and stay with him. do we EVER look at our best guy friend and think "he would make a really good husband"? no, we don't. then, how often do we really stay with "the bad boy" (u know the type that always care more about his motorcycle than u, and probably has lots of tattoos and hates his parents, and hates anything that even resembles committment?) not very long...cuz we just plain get bored. we always think that we can make the "bad boy" into the nice guy, but it never happens. we, as women, honestly and truly DO want the "nice guy" but we never marry a nice guy...we always tell them, "let's just be friends." which they hear everyday and have heard a million times already and don't want to hear it again, especially not from u, because they are actually in love with u already. but then, on the other side of the coin, we can never get the bad boy to settle down with us, and be happy with just "one pussy" for the rest of their lives...so then, here's the real question....how do any of us actually get married at all? (this is what the guy actually said to me...how do people get married?)
posted by AeroAangel at 22:14
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*Laugh* Don't even get me started on the whole "nice guy" rant. I think I spent most of my dating life in that role.
As for the rest, I dunno how it ends up happening. I know we've had a conversation some what close to this before. Truthfully I think all of us, male and female, want the fairy tail ending, thats why we all keep looking.
Granted woman are looking for the prince charming, and men tend to be looking for the woman wearing a nice dress out in public but with the leather corset underneath for when she gets home :-D.
people settle. Men and women included. They are afraid of ending up alone (even if they are only 24) freakout and settle.
I have a huge post to post on this. Single vs married.
...oy.
Settling for the wrong reasons will only cause you bigger troubles for the long term. It's a huge mistake a lot of people make, ending up with divorce.
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